Making the Connection
I started off my day with a meeting of 200 local professionals who came to hear Bill Millett, a national speaker, talk about the impact of the investment in early childhood programs. Specifically, the long term return for communities when they focus work on children before the child ever reaches school. As I gave the opening comments, I said that "the decisions that are made today impact lives 20 years down the road."
A couple of hours later, dressed in my flannel jeans, long underwear and a Detroit Lions hat, I joined one of United Way's associates -- Bill Sullivan--on a project he was working on: interviewing the homeless in the tri-county area on the barriers they face. It was one of those days that never saw the thermometer hit higher than a single digit. As we traversed through the central business district of Detroit on foot, we met up with Roderick walking along the sidewalk.
Of his 44 years on earth, 35 of them have been homeless. Roderick didn't complete 10th grade. He had employment on and off over his life. He had family in the area, but not much contact with them. His warn face and hands spoke to someone who looked 20 years older. He lives off of small government support.
Is there a connection between 200 professionals gathering to figure out how this region puts more attention on early childhood development and Roderick. You bet.
I have said it before, and I'll say it again. There is a cost not only to Roderick, but to society for not having him with permanent housing and employment. So when we say that every dollar put in early childhood development saves $17 at the other end, this is in part what we mean. When research shows us that a child not reading at grade level by age three gives them nearly a 90% chance of NOT graduating, the consequences of that gap has a human toll.
These topics of Early Childhood Education and Homelessness can often seem abstract and not real. The things others discuss, others experience and others must solve. But the fact of the matter is the issues are real and the responsibility for solving rests with all of us.
This day, for me, was a stark reminder of how so much of what we all do is connected. At times though, we don't always see the links.
Click here to learn more about early childhood work in the region and the personal reflections of United Way associates who have interviewed over 60 homeless individuals in the region.
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A couple of hours later, dressed in my flannel jeans, long underwear and a Detroit Lions hat, I joined one of United Way's associates -- Bill Sullivan--on a project he was working on: interviewing the homeless in the tri-county area on the barriers they face. It was one of those days that never saw the thermometer hit higher than a single digit. As we traversed through the central business district of Detroit on foot, we met up with Roderick walking along the sidewalk.
Of his 44 years on earth, 35 of them have been homeless. Roderick didn't complete 10th grade. He had employment on and off over his life. He had family in the area, but not much contact with them. His warn face and hands spoke to someone who looked 20 years older. He lives off of small government support.
Is there a connection between 200 professionals gathering to figure out how this region puts more attention on early childhood development and Roderick. You bet.
I have said it before, and I'll say it again. There is a cost not only to Roderick, but to society for not having him with permanent housing and employment. So when we say that every dollar put in early childhood development saves $17 at the other end, this is in part what we mean. When research shows us that a child not reading at grade level by age three gives them nearly a 90% chance of NOT graduating, the consequences of that gap has a human toll.
These topics of Early Childhood Education and Homelessness can often seem abstract and not real. The things others discuss, others experience and others must solve. But the fact of the matter is the issues are real and the responsibility for solving rests with all of us.
This day, for me, was a stark reminder of how so much of what we all do is connected. At times though, we don't always see the links.
Click here to learn more about early childhood work in the region and the personal reflections of United Way associates who have interviewed over 60 homeless individuals in the region.
Thanks for reading. Pass it on.




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How Recovery Groups Can Help the Nation Find Common Ground
10/7/2004
Commentary
by Cynthia Orange
For one luminous moment in the time after "9/11," we were truly a nation united. It did not matter how much money you made, what color your skin was, or whom you voted for in the last election. We clung to each other in shared grief and determination.
But the moment passed too quickly. Now we stand, not united, but as a country of red and blue states, a land of "we" and "they." Many pundits have described the current political climate as the third most divisive in the history of our nation, exceeded only by the Civil War and the conflict over Vietnam.
It doesn't have to be this way. As millions of recovering alcoholics have demonstrated since 1935, when the first Alcoholics Anonymous group was formed in Akron, Ohio, it is possible for a group of disparate individuals from all walks of life to come together in a small room without rage or resentment toward each other.
"In 20 years of AA, I've never once experienced antagonism because of personal differences," said Rick R. "The only arguments I've witnessed aren't because someone is rich or poor or black or white; they're because someone isn't being truthful to themselves or to the group about their addiction. You don't come to a mutual-help meeting as a Republican or Democrat or a millionaire or a bum; you come as someone who is trying to stay clean and sober. You're no better and you're no worse than the person sitting next to you, but you're all better for being there and for trying."
The first tradition of Alcoholics Anonymous states, "Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends on AA unity." In other words, we must work together to survive. We embrace this philosophy easily enough in times of crisis, but abandon it too quickly when the crisis has passed.
"The humility that addiction brings is sadly missing in American politics today," said Jim Ramstad, a member of the U.S. House of Representatives from Minnesota and a recovering alcoholic. "Unfortunately, the unity that all Americans felt following 9/11 has been replaced by the politics of division. There's too much rancor and bitterness. People aren't listening to what's being said by the other side or searching for some common ground. Total honesty on both sides of the aisle would be a great substitute for political spin."
When members in a mutual-support group tell their stories, the other members listen with respect, total attention, and without judgment. "You listen deeply and wait for them to become themselves, and eventually you hear just the word or the story that you needed to hear," said Rick.
It has been said that to be humble is to be teachable. When we suspend our own agendas and listen to each other's stories and ideas with respect and humility, everyone can benefit and everyone can grow and learn from the experience.
A Chinese proverb says, "If there is right in the soul, there will be beauty in the person; if there is beauty in the person, there will be harmony in the home; if there is harmony in the home, there will be peace in the world." Likewise, Step Twelve encourages recovering people to practice the principles of recovery in all their affairs--to "walk the walk," not just "talk the talk."
In politics, this might mean stepping across the aisle to work with someone from another party on an issue of mutual concern. This is what happened when Rep. Ramstad, a Republican, joined forces with the late Sen. Paul Wellstone, a Democrat, to lead the effort on Capitol Hill when they sought parity for insurance coverage of addiction. "They used to call us the odd couple, because of our respective politics, but there was nobody better to work with in the trenches than Paul," said Ramstad. "We discovered that you get better public policies enacted when you focus on commonalties rather than differences.
"Addiction and recovery are the great levelers," he continued. "They remind us that we are imperfect beings. We all have deficiencies and character flaws. It would be a lot easier to gain mutual support and establish a common ground if everyone practiced the principles of recovery. Could you imagine the good we could do if we could transform Congress into one big meeting of recovering people where people say what they mean and mean what they say?"
Courtesy of Alive & Free, a column published by Hazelden. Cynthia Orange is a free-lance writer from West St. Paul, Minn., and a regular contributor to Alive & Free and other Hazelden-published materials.
As part of our mission to support communities taking action against alcohol and other drug problems, Join Together publishes selected commentary. The views expressed are those of the author, who is solely responsible for the content.
To whom it may concern
Please be advised this may be lengthy in words, yet important to your decision.
This is your invitation to take an active part in a one of a kind conference to reach more people in need of our collective efforts. Please read the included attachments before you make a final decision. If you are willing to work with us and help us sell tickets, we will consider sharing the proceeds of the final ticket sales. Another way to contribute support you efforts.
We are asking you to rent a $12.00 (for your) display table (available 1½ days) and buy one ticket to give away, raffle off or sell to your clientele as possible. We are the Addictions Awareness Initiative Group from the Macomb Intergroup. We serve Macomb County and the surrounding areas. The service office is available for information about self-help recovery from substance abuse as well as for literature and recovery gifts. We also offer directories of recovery groups and meetings. The most important service this group offers is group involvement of the individual with one on one sponsorship and beginners meetings for those individuals who might need them or for those who are sent by the authorities. Our program could conceivably prove out within just three years to be self-supporting for both the individual and those lives or livelihoods (relatives, coworkers, employees, and neighbors), which are affected.
Should your organization deem it probable this letter or our project could even minimally help someone perhaps it would be possible to include notice of either one in a publication of your management? We gratefully accept contributions of any scale to continue providing this information and more for all who need it because research shows that substance abuse is one of the major health problems today.
Following are services provided from past up to present:
1. 1st Thanksgiving Day, Holiday Alkathon (24 hour closed discussion meeting) Faith Lutheran Church, Shelby Twp. MI, 1998 2nd 1999.
2. 1st New years Eve Dance Party, collaboration Lans Cruse School auditorium Clinton Twp
3. 1st mini-conference 2004 “Voices for recovery” Peace Lutheran Church, 12 Mile rd. Warren, MI
4. 1st “Working With Others” Community Information Mini-conference, Oct.2006
5. Only legal full Service Office in Deed Real-estate bldg. 2000 – 2004, Center Line, MI
a. 24 hours Telephone Hot Line, Center Line – Warren, MI
b. 39 person open talk, speakers list
c. 9 member temporary mentors list
d. Monthly newsletter
6. Installed three new booklets:
a.) “1st Step booklet for alcoholism recovery”
1.) New directories including Macomb County in Oakland County Directory
2.) Simplified into Macomb County group meetings directory
3.) Changed old style beginner’s packages, into “welcome’ information help
a. Literature pkgs.
4.) Cooperated to install simpler version of 12 Step recovery booklets Table Topics for Beginners and Group)(cost and material effective)
7. 5.) Reduced-publishing costs of newsletter with paid ads.
8. 7. Requested cooperation with MCMHASA Ctr. (Mr., R.
A. Counseling Services
1. Aspen Counseling (Sterling Hgts.)
2. Interventions (Clntn Twp)
3. New Alternatives (Center Line)
4. Options Counseling (The City of Warren)
5. Sacred Heart rehabilitation Ctr (WRN – Mrs. C. Steir)
6. Macomb Catholic Services
7. McCrest
8. Matt’s – Salvation Army
9. DiemlerChrysler EAP UAW locals 140, 212, 1264
10. Local cooperating merchants to be identified on future gratitude list.
9. Offered more and long term assistance to Mt Clemens (Ms. Kuick and Board) drug-traffic courts
10. Meetings with 37th District Court (Hon. Judge D. Gruenberg, Drug Court)
11. Meetings with Hon. M. Sauger Macomb County Commissioner (mailed or called others)
The Addictions Awareness Initiative Service Group is mandated by the very service it is making available, from us to the exact people who are asking now or will claim to need these services most. The Macomb County people (citizens) are asking for help from life threatening addiction problems or codependency and those consequences.
Therefore, we do present this signed letter to all concerned for the necessary support, to make it our groups’ (AAIG) longer-term commitment. This is for the support from their area of need, and tools for life-long success of newly recovering people in our area, for which it, A A \ A A I G \ A l a n o n
An l a t e e n \ B2B \ HTLTG \ NA \ Naranon) is best, suited. This could qualify your and our efforts for some needed funding from other sources like foundations, groups, government, recovery members, local municipalities, block grants and contributions or donations etc. This letter will verify your and our two-year commitments from the date signed below.
This is a letter of request for your written commitment of support for the aforementioned A. A. I. G; services afforded the recovery groups, those families effected, (directly or otherwise), of this Macomb County and surrounding area. With close support from the above noted sources meetings, sessions, and sponsorship as hosted by this AAI SERVICE GROUP.
Otherwise, we congratulate you on the success of your dedicated and laborious work on the behalf of those most in need. Thanking you in advance for your kind considerations in this very important matter to you and our group.
Addictions Awareness Initiative Group
In cooperation with
JAZZ FOR PEACE
“ Live ”
The Renowned Artist: Mr. Rick DellaRatta from New York City, New York
Giving a Benefit Concert for
Addictions Awareness Initiative Group
“Working With Others”
Community Information Mini Conference
Saturday 7th July 2007 3:30 pm – 7:30 pm
RSVP by 5:00 pm April 31st 2006
To save your place as space is limited.
Discounts can be offered if tickets ordered now.
Please show a commitment below as indicated. How many tickets you or your organization will require for this JAZZ FOR PEACE BENEFIT CONCERT for the Addictions Awareness Initiative Group, in the “Working With Others” Community Information Benefit Concert.
Remember this is scheduled only one time here in our Macomb County, our State of Michigan.
Also the AAI Group is still reorganizing the Macomb Intergroup Assn. Inc., which is a legal 501c3 charity for recovery from substance abuse through mentoring and self-help. We are here to service the community and the recovering individual or your group for a ten-year plan.
These Benefit Concert tickets are as priced for single tickets $30.00 each. See included pricing list for your convenience and making your decision about how many tickets you would have us accept for your commitment and for what, display table only, Q & A table, your representative(s), concert, conference only or benefit concert only or both activities.
Remember as well, that tickets to the benefit concert are as is, and non-refundable. Discounts are available if advance tickets are committed for in writing and in 90-business days advance notice of how many you require. We wish to repeat this event only if there are sufficient funds left to make the necessary deposit for our next benefit concert.
Please circle the number of tickets you are committing for and require:
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 more
As soon as you can, with the deepest respect of your hard work and kind considerations in this matter for a timely response.
We would like to thank you in advance for taking time and consideration to speak of our project or to pass this letter to someone we might be able to help share. With dedicated hope and minimal expense of responsive cooperation for maximum results, couldn’t we help so many more people succeed longer?
Sincerely,
Ms. Ollie Ellsworth Mr. Wm. Bridges
General Manager / Chairwoman Intergroup Corrections Facility
Addictions Awareness Initiative Group Mail correspondent
Macomb Intergroup Assn. Inc. Macomb Warming Center
Associate Board Member
Mrs. Donna Powell
Co-Chairperson Wm. Szot, Pastor
Board Member Director How to Listen to God Assistant General Manager Program
Board Member
Mr. M. Denham
General Secretary Mrs. M. A. Holt (RN)
AAI Group Board Member
Macomb Intergroup Assn. Inc Outside Director
P. O. Box 3342 Chelsea House for Recovery
Center Line, MI 48015 Gladys Place for Women
Work Shop Leaders
Mr. Geo. Zender / M. Denham/ Debbie C. Back to Basics
(12 steps recovery)
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