Detroit Free Press: Determined student defies the odds
And she is amazing. More than a survivor, she is a remarkable success in circumstances that breed failure. She did not disappear from the school system, as so many children like her do. She persevered as she was shuttled between relatives and foster homes and more than 10 schools in 12 years.
And now, a month from graduating as valedictorian of an east-side charter school, Detroit Academy of Arts and Sciences High School, she must be heard. Her experience, her commitment, can be building blocks for others.
"I remember specifically a friend of the family telling me: I don't know how you're going to make it without your mother," Alecia told me. "You're going to be pregnant at 16, you're going to drop out of school, you ain't going to do nothing with yourself."
What a message to give a child. But Alecia didn't crumble. "I could hear that in my ear the whole time. It matured me, and it motivated me to say, 'OK, I'm going to show you different. One day I'm going to have you speechless.' "
Alecia was 9 when her mother died from drugs and complications of HIV. Her father remains in her life but has struggled with his own demons.
So Alecia, now 18, found her self shuttled between temporary foster homes and a parade of aunts, uncles and grandparents. In fact, she tracks her life less in years than by the schools she has attended.
How easily Alecia's name could have been added to vast rolls of dropouts in Detroit, as her three older sisters were. But she kept going, pushed by her faith, her teachers and an aunt named Gwen.
"Life has not broken her," said Jill Thomas-Bowens, Alecia's English teacher. "A student like Alecia, all she needs is a chance and a few champions."
Her struggle will not end on graduation day, June 16. While Alecia carries a 3.95 GPA, her ACT score was just 17, and Thomas-Bowens worries about her needing to seek extra help in college and finding mentors.
She also needs enough of a financial aid package to cover tuition at Michigan State University, Wayne State University or Olivet College. She has been accepted at all three, but counselors have had to scramble to resolve a glitch in her assistance forms.
Faith will not let Alecia fret.
"I know I'm going to college," she said.
"Before my grandmother died, she taught me to believe in goals, God and the 91st Psalm," she said, referring to a Bible passage about faith. "It's not that I'm the smartest; I just have a goal, and I have God on my side."
There's a word for young people like Alecia: resilient.
They are the girls and boys who come to school already skilled at survival. Imagine the fortitude it takes for a child from a struggling environment to keep showing up, despite family histories of failure and friends who find it acceptable to quit.
Too bad most schools aren't equipped to leverage that raw skill set or to recognize how a hard home life doesn't steal or twist all the strengths of a child.
"If you just have somebody to listen to you, it makes you keep going," Alecia said.
Teachers have the desire to reach out, but few have the flexibility to take their eye off the demands of the classroom long enough to go deep with one child. But there are more Alecias out there, more building blocks for the younger children behind them.
They should be honored -- and they could be trained as citywide, on-site school leaders and mentors. They can be enlisted to help people who care retake a failing school system.
Sounds big, maybe even impossible. But don't tell Alecia McWilliams about daunting odds. Let her tell you how to beat them.
NICHOLE M. CHRISTIAN is an editorial writer. Contact her at 313-222-6456 or nchristian@freepress.com.
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